The stairs the entry and exit and the most direct route for us to head outside. The days are growing warmer and everyone is moving faster, so it is natural for us to head outside as much as possible and allowing the infants to move in their own way, in their own time.
This was made abundantly clear to me as we headed outside today. I opened the front door and invited everyone out. H quickly crawled out, Z followed and I helped E get closer. I like to give each child the time they need while balance the cost of heating the house, so after a while I helped everyone outside. Then came our next obstacle.
Z watched E's trek down the stairs and slowly made his way forward. He let out a very happy noise as he eased over the edge. He hung out there, then felt nervous and backed up. watched H at the shoes for a while and quite naturally began to slide backwards down the stairs. First his feet reached down, then he was standing on the first step. He tested it out by pushing down with his feet, even bouncing a bit and laughing. I sat near by, talking quietly about what he was doing. "Your feet are on the step, do you feel it?" Soon he was on his belly on that first step and even scooted forward a bit along the length of the stair. After some time he swung his legs down and moved down to the ground, the whole process of him making his way down the stairs taking around 30 minutes.
H came over to see what Z was doing a few times, but returned to the shoes where his true interest was.
"If we agree that the bottom line of life is happiness, not success, then
it makes perfect sense to say that it is the journey that counts, not
reaching the destination."
Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
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